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Monday, February 25, 2008

With 2008 in full swing, perhaps you've already had your fill of economic and political predictions by experts and clairvoyants. However, as a Sandwiched Boomer, the following quietly growing trend may surprise you. The results of recent studies indicate that nearly 40% of close to 44 million unpaid caregivers for the elderly are male. The call to honor loved ones is becoming an emerging pattern of male behavior.

As you well know, in the past, the bulk of these caretaking responsibilities have been carried out by daughters. Women have left jobs or subjugated their work life in order to fulfill the duties associated with the 'daughter track.' But male caregivers are different than their sisters - they don't cut back on work as often and they have a louder voice in the workplace. Some experts think that men are powerful enough to catapult this beyond what is perceived as a woman's issue to a societal need, similar to Social Security and Medicare.

Who are the men in your life taking care of their parents and how are they managing these responsibilities? This week we will be focusing on this new trend and we welcome your input.

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

I came to California for college and never left. My brother still lives in New York and has gotten more involved with our parents over the years. I give him as much support as I can and let him know I appreciate all he does.

4:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

MY husband was the prime caregiver for his Mother until she died.His sister who also lived in the same city had too many unresolved issues with her Mother, and would not be involved. He had no resentments and did whatever was required with care. Perhaps the intellectual rather than emotional relationship allowed him the freedom of involvement.

2:49 PM  

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