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Wednesday, July 23, 2008

So how do you, as a Sandwiched Boomer, really get to enjoy your staycation when you are still on familiar ground? Do things differently!

Act as you would on your typical vacation away from home. Go to bed and get up when you want - don't set your alarm clock. Let the kids stay up past their bedtime if you are doing something out of the ordinary. Enjoy a special breakfast out one day. Relax in the sun and read a page-turner or amusing beach book. Exercise in ways that aren't easy while you are working - a morning tennis or golf game, a midday horseback ride through the countryside, a leisurely hike at sunset. Splurge on a night out at a fancy restaurant or for tickets to an entertaining event.

Consider this time as a week of weekends. Have fun with your family - play board games together, make popcorn and rent classic movies, go to the park for a pick-up basketball game, take in a concert under the stars, get bleacher tickets for a baseball game, go for family bike rides or long walks in the neighborhood, splash each other in the community pool. Have a barbeque and let each family member cook or prepare a different part of the menu. Plan your own Olympics competition with events appropriate for your children's ages.

Write in a let us all know what kinds of things you have enjoyed doing with the family on your staycation. And log on tomorrow for some more tips.

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Blogger Elaine Williams said...

Great advice. My kids and I in the past would go to our favorite creek watering hole, called "Flat Rocks" and just hang out for the afternoon. Swimming, lazing in the sun, splashing while I read a good book. Family time was what it's all about.

8:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our family likes to take videos so we decided to make a reality show about our staycation. Everyone got a chance to do a part. Then the boys made up a sports show and the older kids did a newscast.

6:54 AM  

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